Thinking and Working Smarter how to leave your personal comments out of the business

By: Elmo Kandel



Keeping our mouth shut is not always easy. It is sometimes almost impossible to keep what we want to say out of the work force. However we need to remember that saying the wrong thing at the wrong time can get us into so much trouble and this is not what is going to look good on our personal resume in the future. Thinking and working smarter to leave out the personal comments from the business area is key when looking for a bright and happy future.

It is going to be a struggle for the most part, but keeping personal comments out of the workplace is important. There are things that you need to discuss like work, and what needs to be done. I would never recommend bad mouthing anyone in the job force. This is going to cause problems even if you do not think it will. Never say badly about anyone because it is only going to get back to him or her. It usually always does. When there is a problem at work, take it to the supervisor and get it all sorted out so that there is no confusion about what is going on.

There is always going to be something going on in the workforce that is not going to suit me. I know however that I cannot shoot my mouth off and get all worked up. I have to think about what I want to say and how I am going to approach the situation. This is the best way to go about it. Thinking clearly before speaking is going to be the best way to get the problems resolved. When having a plan of action first before blurting out something that is only going to cause trouble will be the right way to go about it.

Figuring out what is bothering me at work is going to be the right choice. When there is something that is making life hard, I think about it. I go after the source. Talking about people behind their back is not going to be the right way to go about something in a professional setting. Have a conversation and confront the person first. This is the best way to get it all out in the open and move past the issues that are taking over.

Never say anything personal to the boss or person in charge. You want to keep personal comments to a minimum. This means that saying things out of context is not going to be smart. Keep it professional and know what is going on before opening the mouth. Always know what is going to come out of the mouth so that it does not embarrass you later. This has happened too many times and it can be devastating to a career. The hard work gone in a second because of something that came out of the mouth that should not have!

Be committed to with holding comments that you want to make. Having a good sense of power will keep these comments from spilling out. There are ways to keep your cool. Breathe in and out and keep it in. Let the stress out after work in some way that is healthy and it will make the situation better. Talking it out with the boss or person that is in the center of the problem will give you the power to let out the frustration and make it better for everyone involved. Dealing with it through professional conversation is best. Never blurt out anything that may make you regret it later on.



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